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Pauline Straw MBACP
Integrative Counsellor, Clinical Supervisor & Bereavement Practitioner
Ready For Change?
If you are feeling overwhelmed, navigating grief or loss, struggling in relationships, or simply sensing that life needs to change, I offer a warm, compassionate space where you can pause, reflect, and move forward at your own pace.
I provide counselling and clinical supervision online, outdoors through Walk and Talk Therapy, and in person in Kirkbymoorside, York, North Yorkshire. My approach is relational, creative and evidence informed, helping you make sense of your experiences and discover your own strengths.
Community is at the heart of my work. Alongside my private practice, volunteer as a counsellor, contribute to bereavement research at York St John University and support local wellbeing initiatives in partnership with the NHS. You can read more about my community work below.
Outside my work, I find balance through cycling, swimming, walking, photography, painting and spending time with friends. These are not simply hobbies. They remind me of the importance of resilience, joy, connection and living well, values that I bring into my work with clients every day.
Support for Young Adults
Struggling with studies, pressure or self-confidence? Let's make it easier.
Bereavement Support
You don’t have to deal with grief alone. I’ll help you find peace.
Anxiety & Depression
You’ll feel heard – and find ways to cope with stress, low mood and emotions.
Therapy Support
Whether you are at a crossroads, are in a crisis, or have a longstanding issue, talking therapy can bring a fresh perspective and ways to help you.
Talk things through, build confidence and move forward, safely and without judgment.
We cannot change what happened in the past, but we can change the impact this has on our lives. We are not able to change the people in our lives, but we have the capacity to grow and make positive changes. Counselling gives us space to consider what we want from life, and gain knowledge on how to work towards that.
This may involve identifying and naming the issue. Sometimes it means adopting new ways of being, or discarding what no longer works for you. You may benefit from learning new skills such as empathy, assertiveness, and understanding your emotions, which may lead to increased confidence. It may just be a matter of expressing your emotions in a safe and confidential space.
Everyone can benefit from taking time out to think things through, alongside someone who shares the desire to understand. I provide a friendly, non-judgemental, safe, easy-to-access, confidential, professional, and ethical counselling service for young people over 16 years old and adults.
I offer support for a range of challenges and situations, tailored to your needs. Please explore more about each topic below:
Young Adults & Students: Navigating education, relationships and identity
Loss & Bereavement: Understanding and living with grief
Anxiety & Depression: Finding emotional balance and coping strategies
My Approach
How I Work
I offer flexible options to suit your needs and preferences. Whether you prefer to meet in person, talk online, or take a reflective walk in nature.
In-Person Sessions:
Meet face-to-face in a calm, private space at:
19, Piercy End, Kirkbymoorside,
North Yorkshire
YO62 6DQ.
A safe environment to reflect, talk freely and explore new perspectives.
19, Piercy End, Kirkbymoorside,
North Yorkshire
YO62 6DQ.
A safe environment to reflect, talk freely and explore new perspectives.
Online or Telephone:
Convenient and flexible, talk from wherever you feel most comfortable.
Ideal if you prefer privacy at home or have a busy schedule.
Ideal if you prefer privacy at home or have a busy schedule.
Walk & Talk Outdoors
Move and talk in nature, at your pace.
A gentle way to reflect while walking side by side in:
Kirkbymoorside, North Yorkshire.
A gentle way to reflect while walking side by side in:
Kirkbymoorside, North Yorkshire.
Not sure what’s right for you? Let’s discuss it together.
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What My Clients Say
After suffering for years with self-doubt and low self-esteem I met Pauline, who helped me take a deep look inside myself and supported me as took a long and difficult road to improve my own personal mental health. I cannot thank Pauline enough for the help and patience that she gave me through such difficult times."
Josh
I worked online with Pauline. I highly recommend Pauline as a counsellor. I was at a very difficult point in my life and thanks to Pauline's compassionate approach, I was able to face and work through these difficulties. I learned how to calm my anxieties and now have a fresh perspective on life.
Mary
Over the years I have had several bouts of counselling to deal with past traumas, throughout my life one of the underlying and constant emotions I experienced dealing with these has been anger. Because of the anger, I would lose my temper quite easily and was constantly being told that I should seek help for my anger issues from family, friends and co-workers. Which is how I ended up being counselled by Pauline. Being constantly told I had anger issues, I turned this in on myself, thinking that there was something wrong with me and that it was my fault. Pauline asked me one simple question ‘Why do you think you have anger issues?’ I had never been asked this question before and I realised it was because everyone told me I had issues and I never thought to question why I was so angry and whether it was justifiable. My anger turned out to be justifiable and once I understood this, I stopped being angry and started to be kinder to myself. She also encouraged me to keep a journal which I have done, and it has helped when I have had a bad day, I write things down, one to get it out of my system, two it helps me to see patterns and identify triggers and three I look in my journal and see how far I have progressed and that makes me proud. I would wholeheartedly recommend Pauline. She always amazed me with all the little coping strategies she would come out with. I found her to be very compassionate, empathic, and dedicated to her craft. From one very grateful Client.
Jen
Working with Pauline has been a wonderful experience and I feel it has helped so much in such a short amount of time already. Her compassionate nature and calming presence immediately made me feel safe and supported. She creates a non-judgmental space where I can openly explore my thoughts and emotions. Pauline has helped me navigate personal concerns with care and insight, all while guiding me toward maintaining a healthy and balanced mental wellbeing. I’m deeply grateful for her support and highly recommend her to anyone seeking a thoughtful and empathetic counsellor.
Grace
Grace
Pauline has really helped me build my confidence and to believe in myself, her calm and caring nature makes it so easy and comfortable when talking about the past and understanding why I feel the way I do about it and that it's OK. Her professionalism is second to none, I could not recommend Pauline enough she is such a lovely person who really cares for others and has helped me in so many ways.
Helena
Helena
I’ve grown so much thanks to Pauline and I would recommend her services to anyone seeking therapy. She creates a safe, non-judgemental environment which allows clients to explore therapy at their own pace. She has an incredible ability to put you at ease, whilst challenging thoughts and feelings to get to the root causes of behaviour. Working with Pauline was such a positive experience and I came away from each therapy session feeling like I had learnt something about myself. She is a warm, kind, genuine person and I will happily use her again if and when I need professional support.
Harriet 🙂
Pauline is always so easy to talk to. She listens to everything I have to say and never makes me feel judged. Since going to see her, not only me, but the people around me have noticed I am happier and more myself. I always come out of our sessions feeling lighter than I went in, and that says it all
Helen
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Community Outreach
Community Outreach
At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to serving others and contributing to the wellbeing of the wider community. I believe in meeting people at their point of need by offering support that is grounded, compassionate and accessible. Community work is not separate from my therapeutic practice. It is woven into who I am as a therapist. It keeps me grounded, continually learning, and reminds me of the resilience that can emerge when people are given the opportunity to connect, reflect and heal.
York St John University
Alongside my private practice, I volunteer as a counsellor at the York St John University Communities Centre, where I provide therapy for people who may not otherwise have access to counselling. I also contribute to bereavement research with Professor Lynne Gabriel OBE and Dr John Wilson, exploring the lived experience of grief and how communities can better support those who are bereaved. This work strengthens bereavement counselling, contributes to the wider field of knowledge and ensures my practice remains informed by current research while staying rooted in compassion and humanity.
NHS Bereavement Cafés
In partnership with North Riding Primary Care Network, I lead NHS supported Bereavement Cafés, creating welcoming spaces where people can come together after loss. Since October 2024, these groups have offered connection, understanding and hope to those navigating grief. I am also working with NHS colleagues to develop further community bereavement projects.
Next Steps Charity
I volunteer with the local mental health charity Next Steps, supporting their Community Walks. These walks promote emotional wellbeing through movement, nature and human connection. They reflect my belief in the restorative power of the natural world and the importance of belonging, particularly for those who may be feeling isolated or overwhelmed.
Creativity and Collaboration
Creativity is central to how I work. I often use metaphor, poetry and reflective writing to help people explore experiences that can be difficult to put into words. Whether I am working with an individual, facilitating a group or contributing to research, my aim is always the same: to create spaces where people feel heard, understood and able to move forward with hope.
I value working collaboratively with others who are committed to improving understanding of grief, loss and bereavement. This has included collaborating with the Life and Death Café in Malton and contributing to the University of York’s Picturing Grief project, led by Dr Louise Richardson, which uses philosophy, research and the arts to encourage open conversations about grief.
As a member of the North Yorkshire Writing Circle, I am proud that our poetry group has contributed original work inspired by grief and loss to support the Picturing Grief project. I believe creativity can express experiences that are often difficult to articulate, helping people feel less alone while creating opportunities for reflection, connection and hope.
Working in Partnership
– York St John University Communities Centre
– Professor Lynne Gabriel OBE and Dr John Wilson
– North Riding Primary Care Network
– Next Steps Mental Health Charity
– University of York – Picturing Grief Project
– Dr Louise Richardson
– Life and Death Café, Malton
– North Yorkshire Writing Circle
Let’s Talk
Any questions?
Contact now!
I offer a free, no-obligation 20-minute call.
Feel free to get in touch. I’m here to listen.
You can also email/call me at
pauline_straw@hotmail.com / 07934 564315
Calendly Bookings available for in-person, online and walk and talk sessions.
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